Anonymous asked: Hi Donna how are you. My question is that I am going through a breakup right now and its so hard because I still love him. Do you have advice? I'm trying to move on but its not that easy.
Wow. I’m really sorry you’re going through a rough time. Breakups can be great when you’re leaving someone who isn’t good for you anymore. But they’re also be one of the most painful experiences you can have.
My best advice is: don’t do what I did. I was so devastated by my breakup with Eric—and the fact my mom left—that I ended up in a relationship that was so wrong for me. Instead of sitting with my grief and processing it, I distracted myself with someone else.
I look at losing a relationship with someone as being similar to a death. Everyone grieves in her or his own way, and it takes as long as it takes. I don’t know the details of your breakup, but I know from friends of mine who’ve gone through their own that eventually time does lessen the pain. It doesn’t eradicate it, but eventually they thought of their exes less and less.
My friends also filled their time by doing things they enjoyed. Otherwise, they knew they’d be obsessing over the breakup, which isn’t the same as giving oneself space to mourn. From my own experience, it’s going to be a roller coaster. Don’t try to control it, but try not to let it control you, either.
Anonymous asked: Do you find Kelso attractive?
robin-1994 asked: favorite beatles album?
Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely Hearts Club Band. It has a combination of music and lyrics I really like.
Anonymous asked: If given the chance would you have sex with Donna?
Oh, yeah! And don’t think I haven’t tried.
You’re a pig. Kelso, if you’d actually tried, you would’ve carried your ‘nads home in a paper bag.